{"id":66,"date":"2015-10-18T05:35:08","date_gmt":"2015-10-18T05:35:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/teresaortell.com\/?p=66"},"modified":"2017-12-14T03:12:02","modified_gmt":"2017-12-14T03:12:02","slug":"dealing-with-bad-behaviors-10172015","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/?p=66","title":{"rendered":"Dealing With Bad Behaviors  10\/17\/2015"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/ScoldingHand_1920.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-136\" src=\"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/ScoldingHand_1920-300x225.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/ScoldingHand_1920-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/ScoldingHand_1920-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/ScoldingHand_1920-1024x768.png 1024w, https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/ScoldingHand_1920.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>One of the hardest lessons to master is knowing in your heart that the bad behavior of others is not your fault. \u00a0Sometimes we fear that if it is directed at us, we must be the cause. \u00a0This does not give you license to be rude or hurtful. \u00a0It does, however give us greater responsibility to be as kind and nurturing as we can, knowing that what we put out into the world generates energy. \u00a0Let that energy be positive and calming to the universe. \u00a0Positive and loving behavior <!--more-->generates positive and loving energy. If negative and hurtful energy comes back to us, it comes from them. \u00a0Do not accept that into your world. \u00a0React with sensitivity and love but protect your heart. \u00a0Recognize that we all behave with some sort of motive. \u00a0Sometimes bad behavior comes from deep hurt, but it can also come from\u00a0a destructive spirit.\u00a0\u00a0 Shielding \u00a0your spirit from the painful barbs takes practice but one that is worth mastering. Meet loud and angry people\u00a0\u00a0with a soft, loving voice. \u00a0You may have to physically remove yourself from some situations, but that is OK. \u00a0Do what you need to do to protect yourself. \u00a0Be a nurturer and lover of humanity and protect your heart from harmful forces. \u00a0Practice this everyday and soon it will become\u00a0second nature.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the hardest lessons to master is knowing in your heart that the bad behavior of others is not your fault. \u00a0Sometimes we fear that if it is directed at us, we must be the cause. \u00a0This does not give you license to be rude or hurtful. \u00a0It does, however give us greater responsibility &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/?p=66\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Dealing With Bad Behaviors  10\/17\/2015&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-66","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=66"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":149,"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66\/revisions\/149"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=66"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=66"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teresaortell.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=66"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}